I think your print has the same problem as the guy in this thread:
https://www.shapeways.com/forum/index.php?t=msg&th=29204 &start=0&
I.e. I would bet 29 cents that your file is fine and it is a bad print. It looks to me like it's too small all over, not just in the nuts. I think that's what you should be complaining about.
I'd guess they wanted you to look at your mesh in Netfabb so they can be sure you have looked at the actual triangles of your STL, not at surfaces before meshing, or a render mesh that's not what will be printed, or a mesh that has been smoothed and interpolated for display. This is a standard and useful practice any time you are exporting STL from any software which can't display it natively. You don't have to use a freeware viewer if it hurts your pride -- I use Magics -- but you do need to use something.
That said, optimizing the file settings is on you. There are no correct STL generation settings for Solidworks as such. The correct settings depend on what software you're using, what you're building, the material you're printing in and the machine you're using. Shapeways issues guidelines but cannot cover every case. If you want to use the technology, you'll need to master your own toolset.
Uploading the correct file format is also on you. The upload area is not, to my eye, unclear about which formats are accepted.
Luck with the project. Again, I think you have a bad print here.