For a really dark patina, which I like, I use a product like
this. There are numerous brands that have this same formula of hydrochloric acid and tellurium so you don't need to use this particular brand if you don't want to. Another way to patinate sterling silver is to use
liver of sulfur. This also comes in numerous brands using basically the same chemical composition. I don't like using it though because it has a very strong odor of sulfur and it doesn't make really dark patina compared to the sulfuric acid with tellurium. One other popular way is to use ordinary bleach that you can buy just about anywhere that sells laundry detergent. Not a color safe bleach though, you'll want a bleach that is composed of sodium hypochlorite, like Clorox. This will give you a patina that is light to medium dark gray.
Once your item is patinated it is very difficult to remove the patinated areas. To do this effectively with a rotary tool you need
these. These 220 grit 3M radial bristle discs are great for removing patina and also smoothing out print lines. You'll also want the mandrels for these too. Once you get the patina sanded off your beautiful polish provided by Shapeways is going to be nonexistent. It'll have a dull frosty look to it, however you can get it right back to being immaculately polished again by using
these, followed by
these. These 1 µm 3M radial bristle discs nearly instantly produce an immaculate quality polish. Trust me when I tell you! You will be amazed!
One other thing I like to do after polishing with the 1 µm 3M radial bristle discs is I like to use a
Blitz polishing cloth. This brings the polish one small step above immaculate and the end result is absolutely glorious.
Post pics of your results!