I agree Magic, size is not traditionally the thing that affects the price, because traditionally the main cost is the labour, and the the actual material is the cheap bit.
Most clothing of a particular design costs the same regardless of size - at either end of the bell curve (very small, very big) cost more but it's because of volume of sales rather than amount of materials. The cost of material isn't big, and doesn't have a big effect of the final sale price except for very high value materials and very low cost products.
This kind of automated additive manufacturing that we do turns all that upside down of course and it's possible to very closely measure the various costs of manufacturing, design and materials. We barely have overheads. I don't even think it's necessarily a good idea to try and imitate traditional models of manufacturing pricing and cost in this brave new world, but I appreciate that me still might want to, even if just so we fit into the common retail environment.
I think we'd all agree that Magic's first ideal is the best one - there's some magic (ho ho!) equation that will automatically calculate the volume. Unfortunately I think the answer to this is a parameterised 3d model in conjunction with a bunch of equations, and it'll get resized in real-time and the volume recalculated. It's the only way I can think of doing it properly.
Co-creators are A Big Idea though, and could quite easily become little mini-apps for customising 3d models, the same way that ordering a pizza online tots the cost up as you add toppings and change the size. At the moment Shapeways can't do something of that sophistication, but I don't imagine it's too far off.
Youknowwho - Ponoko have a system where you can upload a simple scan of a hand drawing and they convert it to line art and tell you how much it'll cost to have laser cut, so it's actually baked already.
(There's room for a canny coder to come along and develop a web front-end that allows a user to modify the parameters of a 3d model, and that could quite easily slot into the shapeways sales model.)
The idea of the quoting system I think wouldn't be a winner for Shapeways, I think they buy into the idea of being able to appear to be a regular retail outlet - one price, one order, and a lot of users will be put off by knowing that they have to wait for a real person to deal with them and decide how much they can be taken for.
Still no solution! Lots of talking though
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